Instagram is an interesting app after facebook ,Which mostly look like
the twin brother of facebook with just a little bit of different features . We
keep posting our amazing pictures, our reels of day to day life , our little
moments taking pictures then actually enjoying them . We are more concerned
about our followers than our real friends . It has become so common to pretend
to not care but in reality we actually do care . Instagram has become inevitable
in somebodys life . Sometimes even the gulping down food is difficult without it
for many fellows I see . So i won't take it long to explain why you should spend
your time on this wonderful app
number 1 noted: Waste of your time : Most of the people will not really
care about their time . They behave like they are gonna live forever. They don't
care if they are missing something really important in reality . They don't care
that they are missing the most precious time with their family and friends which
they could enjoy . They don't mind spending more time ignoring the fact that
they could have a good opportunity if they have literally spent it on something
productive . And if this kind of person is you then you should totally use
instagram .
number 2 noted : If you want to lose your real friends: Remember the days before instagram and facebook when you used to play with your friends , visit them , have a real conversation , have a real connection and that urge to meet them after a wait . that kind of excitement . it only exists in the past . I remember those days when I was at school and I used to meet my friend once on the weekend . It used to be a lot of exciting to have small talks with your friend after a long wait . But now you are always on your phone . You know that they are also online , but they don't talk . You see them adding stories but not having any conversation with you . you see them posting every day . But I don't even remember your birthday . You both know that they are there always , everytime which decreases the value of someone being too available to somebody. At last we end up not talking with eachother. And if you are that friend who dont care about losing someone important in your life before it's too late then you should definitely keep going.
number 3 noted:Superficial expectations: This is my favorite line to explain . I want ask you something have you ever seen someone gorgeous posting a picture of him and her and they got tons of hearts and comments. Their post got place everywhere and you compare it to yourself and found yourself that you are not good enough . You see someone so fit and skinny and look at yourself and felt that you are not skinny enough . And you see someone so successful or they may talk things like young successful and you felt like you are not doing enough . Don't worry you are alone on this journey . I was also in the same position before thinking that i ' m not enough comparing them . Someone whom i don't even know where they appear from until i stop caring what people do . Being on instagram for a long time is going to make you feel this way constantly . Force you to compare yourself to the people who already have a strong background to have whatever they want in their life . And if you are someone who doesn't care about yourself , what you want to do , How you want to be somewhere where you really want to be then please don't leave instagram be there , keep comparing and keep feeling low.
number 4 noted: Decline your mental health : I know you exactly understand that feeling of loneliness , that feeling of emptiness when you wake every day see your profile and nobody messages you . I know the feeling of anxiety when everyone is somewhere and you feel like you are always there . I know the feelings when someone loses weight just by a small diet plan but you are not able to follow the same thing. I know the feeling of stalking someone you like and boom they are already in a relationship . I can feel the hours of constant mindless scrolling all the time doing nothing , skipping your priorities , skipping your loved ones and at the end of day realizing you are nowhere and which ends up making you feel depressed day by day . and if you are someone who is not scared to be in this situation continuously then my friend keep going . keep doing what you want to do . keep scrolling all day long on the screen . keep feeling low .
number 5 noted:Missing out: Missing out is a common term used to explain something on social media not to miss any trend or something like that . But i m not talking about missing out trend of social media but missing out to meet someone important , missing out to develop a career , missing out to enjoy small things of your life , missing out to see the wonders of nature , missing out to enjoy clouds , rivers , mountains , butterflies , missing out precious moment with your child your parents , missing out real small talks , missing out meeting new people , missing out initiating a conversation , missing out to look over stupid things people do , missing out to love unconditionally , missing out to be yourself and to like like youself . Missing out of the enjoyment to be you in this world and lastly you will end up missing you .
I definitely know that this is not going to change most of your life but i know that may be you will be little bit more conscious before spending your precious time on instagram or any platform . Even sometimes i regret using so much time on a platform which is not going to help me in any way . This article is not about not use any platform but not to spend most of your time and energy in it instead of something important. I wish i knew this earlier years before using social media. Do you also felt like that way ??? comment below.............
number 2 noted : If you want to lose your real friends: Remember the days before instagram and facebook when you used to play with your friends , visit them , have a real conversation , have a real connection and that urge to meet them after a wait . that kind of excitement . it only exists in the past . I remember those days when I was at school and I used to meet my friend once on the weekend . It used to be a lot of exciting to have small talks with your friend after a long wait . But now you are always on your phone . You know that they are also online , but they don't talk . You see them adding stories but not having any conversation with you . you see them posting every day . But I don't even remember your birthday . You both know that they are there always , everytime which decreases the value of someone being too available to somebody. At last we end up not talking with eachother. And if you are that friend who dont care about losing someone important in your life before it's too late then you should definitely keep going.
number 3 noted:Superficial expectations: This is my favorite line to explain . I want ask you something have you ever seen someone gorgeous posting a picture of him and her and they got tons of hearts and comments. Their post got place everywhere and you compare it to yourself and found yourself that you are not good enough . You see someone so fit and skinny and look at yourself and felt that you are not skinny enough . And you see someone so successful or they may talk things like young successful and you felt like you are not doing enough . Don't worry you are alone on this journey . I was also in the same position before thinking that i ' m not enough comparing them . Someone whom i don't even know where they appear from until i stop caring what people do . Being on instagram for a long time is going to make you feel this way constantly . Force you to compare yourself to the people who already have a strong background to have whatever they want in their life . And if you are someone who doesn't care about yourself , what you want to do , How you want to be somewhere where you really want to be then please don't leave instagram be there , keep comparing and keep feeling low.
number 4 noted: Decline your mental health : I know you exactly understand that feeling of loneliness , that feeling of emptiness when you wake every day see your profile and nobody messages you . I know the feeling of anxiety when everyone is somewhere and you feel like you are always there . I know the feelings when someone loses weight just by a small diet plan but you are not able to follow the same thing. I know the feeling of stalking someone you like and boom they are already in a relationship . I can feel the hours of constant mindless scrolling all the time doing nothing , skipping your priorities , skipping your loved ones and at the end of day realizing you are nowhere and which ends up making you feel depressed day by day . and if you are someone who is not scared to be in this situation continuously then my friend keep going . keep doing what you want to do . keep scrolling all day long on the screen . keep feeling low .
number 5 noted:Missing out: Missing out is a common term used to explain something on social media not to miss any trend or something like that . But i m not talking about missing out trend of social media but missing out to meet someone important , missing out to develop a career , missing out to enjoy small things of your life , missing out to see the wonders of nature , missing out to enjoy clouds , rivers , mountains , butterflies , missing out precious moment with your child your parents , missing out real small talks , missing out meeting new people , missing out initiating a conversation , missing out to look over stupid things people do , missing out to love unconditionally , missing out to be yourself and to like like youself . Missing out of the enjoyment to be you in this world and lastly you will end up missing you .
I definitely know that this is not going to change most of your life but i know that may be you will be little bit more conscious before spending your precious time on instagram or any platform . Even sometimes i regret using so much time on a platform which is not going to help me in any way . This article is not about not use any platform but not to spend most of your time and energy in it instead of something important. I wish i knew this earlier years before using social media. Do you also felt like that way ??? comment below.............
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